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How to Use a Vibrator

Do you want to learn how to use a vibrator? Are you interested in using one on yourself? Or on your partner? Find out everything you need to know in this blog post…

Easy to follow tips and advice.

If you want to find out how to use a vibrator on a woman its probably for one of two reasons:

You want to know how to use one on yourself.
You want to use one on your female partner.

Using a vibe for masturbation:

Make sure you wont be disturbed or over heard – There is nothing wrong with what you are doing but it still could be pretty embarrassing if you get caught. Pick a time and a place where you know you can sit back, relax and enjoy your new toy to the max.
Make sure you have plenty of batteries – If your toy needs batteries make sure you have new ones and even some spares (trust me there is nothing more disappointing than running out of power when you need it the most!). If you use toys a lot I really recommend investing in ones with built in rechargeable batteries just like you have for an electric toothbrush or a phone.
Use fantasy if it helps you get super horny – I love fantasizing, it always gets me in the right mood. If you need some inspiration check out our sexy stories on this link…
Start off with the settings on low – Don’t crank the power up straight away, it is always nice to leave a little more intensity for when you really crave it.
Explore the three main areas – Inside your pussy, your clit and your butt (if you like the idea of it). This is your toy and your body. Explore it in whatever way feels good to you. If you want to tickle your butt with it then go for it! If you want to fuck your pussy really hard with it then go for that as well. If you want soft gentle vibes on the tip of your clit then please do it and enjoy it. (I love doing all three of these by the way tee hee hee 😉 )
Relax and let your body tell you what it wants – When you first use a sex toy it might feel a bit strange. This is perfectly normal, just keep going and let the sensations in your body tell you what it needs to reach orgasm.
Practice makes perfect – Like every other skill, playing with toys gets better with practice…YIPPPEEEE! That means you need to spend a lot of time playing and each time you do it you will get better and better.

Using a vibe on your lady:

Get her in the mood – Women usually get turned on like a volume knob, slowly and gradually rather than an on/off switch like men. By using dirty talk, making her feel relaxed and giving her lots of foreplay you will have her begging you to use the vibe on her.
Tease her first and warm her up – Don’t dive straight in it, try to tease her a bit first. Maybe tickle her nipples with the toy. Try running it over her feet or up the inside of her thighs. This will build up the anticipation, the desire and sexual tension.
Be gentle at first – Ladies can be very sensitive, especially on the tip of their clitoris. So don’t turn the vibrations up too full and don’t apply too much pressure when you start using the toy on her pussy.
Explore the areas she will find sexiest – Run it up and down her pussy lips, tickle her ass with it, slide it inside her and use it on her clit.
Explore her g-spot – If you don’t know what or where the g-spot is read this link on G-spots
Anal play with a vibrator – Some ladies love having their ass stimulated or even fucked with a vibe. Two things to remember about this. Firstly only go there if she is cool with it. Secondly whenever doing any sort of anal play always use a lot of lube…The more the better!
Watch and listen to her signals – Women tend to give a lot of signals as to what they do and don’t like. Moans and groans, little hip wiggles, heavy breathing etc. If you can read these signals you can become a seriously good lover as this is the secret key to her deepest desires.
Increase the pressure, speed and intensity when you want her to cum – Turn up the vibe and move it faster. Do this gradually and watch to see if she enjoys it. You can even ask her if she likes it, but usually it will be very obvious.
If you struggle, give it to her, watch and learn – Using a vibe on a woman can be tricky at first. If you are not getting her horny, give her the toy and tell her to show you what she likes. Watch, learn and then try to do the same.
Practice makes perfect – Yes the more you do this the better you will get. By the way, if you ever want more sex or more blow-jobs the best thing to do is get very good at giving her orgasms and then she will be much more likely to repay the favor.

So now you know exactly how to use a vibe why not check out my sex toy shop and treat yourself or your lady to a new sex play toy or two…

Love

What are the Best Sex Toys?

Do you want to know what are the best sex toys for women, men and couples? I’ve complied a list of the best out there so feel free to check it out…

Check out this list of the top ten best adult toys:

Luxury vibes and dildos – While budget sex toys are great fun and they will give you lots of nice orgasms there is something really awesome about spending a little bit more on a luxury toy. The more expensive toys look better, they feel better, they work better and they last almost forever. Also they have cool little features, like being easy to clean, fully rechargeable and offering much better control of the speeds and intensities. Well worth the money if you can afford it!
P-spot vibes – Designed to stimulate the prostrate glands and give the man a very intense full body orgasm even without any stimulation of his cock! Once a guy gets over any concerns he might have about putting a toy up his butt he will start to love playing with his p-spot vibe.
G-spot vibes and dildos – Specially designed to hit that sweet and sexy spot inside a lady. Fingers sometimes just won’t do the job and that’s where the g-spot vibe comes in very, very handy!
Sex machine – A thrusting dildo in a box. These machines never go limp, they never get tired and they can last all night long. But to be fair they aren’t much good at pillow talk or cuddles once the fucking is over!
Vibrating cock rings – The ring gives him a firmer, larger erection plus helps him last longer and have a much more powerful orgasm. She gets to grinds her clit against the vibe as he fucks her. I think that’s what’s called a win-win arrangement!
Sex swings – These allow couples to fuck in all sorts of exciting new positions but without the guy having to hold the lady up, so he has more energy for fucking her.
Remote controlled toys – One of the best adult toys for couples to play with. She wears the vibrating toy on her clit or inside her. They both go out for a walk, to a bar or for a meal. He drives her wild by turning the toy on and off with the remote. She does her best to not let it show but perhaps it doesn’t always manage to conceal her sexy pleasure!?!?
Bondage toys and kits –It doesn’t matter who is tying who up if you have some cuffs and restraints if feels a lot sexier and it’s much better than just tying knots in scarves or belts.
Spanking implements – Again it doesn’t matter who is doing the spanking and who is being spanked. Paddles, whips and crops make it feel so much kinkier and they hurt a lot more as well! (If you want them too…Tee heee hee! 😉 )
Butt plugs and anal toys – Both men and women can orgasm from anal play and it is a great way to add a new dimension to your sex life. The important thing to remember is to always use lots and lots of lube whenever you are experimenting with anal fun and games.

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Love

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Need Advice on Sex Toys for Beginners?

There are so many toys on the market these days. What are the best adult toys for beginners? For men, women, couples?

Everything you need to know…

Owning an adult store and website means I get asked a lot of questions about toys for beginners. Some common questions are…

What are the best sex toys for beginners?
What toys are best for couples to experiment with?
What toys are good for men and for women?

Check out this list of my top ten adult toys for newbies…

Clitoral vibrators – The absolute classic sex toy. Clit vibes deliver a powerful buzzing sensation when applied to the clit and can create intense orgasms in most women. They are really cheap, really effective and really easy to use. Every girl should have one (or two, or three tee hee 😉 ).
G-spot vibes and dildos – If you can’t find your g-spot click here for some easy to follow advice. G-spot vibes are my all time favorite toys. They have a slight curve in them which allows easy and accurate stimulation of the seriously sexy spot inside the pussy. Great fun and highly recommended.
Prostrate vibrators – The prostrate gland is also known as the male g-spot or the p-spot. When stimulated with a vibe or anal toy it can produce intense orgasms in men. P-spot vibes are designed to hit this spot with variable intensity giving just the right amount of pleasure exactly where it’s needed.
Fifty Shades Bondage Kit – One of our most popular choices. Named after the hugely popular romance/erotica novel the kit is great for couples who want to experiment with bondage, light S&M, spanking, etc.
Remote control vibrators – Another of my all time fave adult toys. The lady wears the toy (either inside her or on her clit) and her partner can give her powerful waves of pleasure at the push of a button. Of course these toys can be used anywhere and this only adds to the fun and excitement!
Butt plugs – If you want to try anal sex but are worried about the pain butt plugs are the answer. When inserted they help the butt to relax and stretch open so that when intercourse begins there is much less pain because the muscles are really relaxed.
Spanking paddles and riding crops – Spanking by hand is great fun (I love spanking and being spanked). But with whips and paddles it is even more fun. First of all your hand won’t get sore, also you can spank harder and faster, finally using a spanking toy makes it feel even more kinky and naughty!
Anal beads – Insert the beads into the butt during sex, then on the point of climax pull the beads out. This creates huge sensations of pleasure and massively increases the power of the climax. Great for both men and women, anal beads are super cheap and a great sex toy for beginner to play with.
Cock rings – Cock rings restrict the flow of blood to the erection, this creates a larger, firmer more engorged penis. They also help the man to last longer and have much more powerful climaxes. If you buy one with a vibrator on it as well the woman can grind her clit against it while she is being fucked.
Strap ons – Not for everyone but some guys and girls love being fucked with a plastic cock. Most women who wear and use one say they find it a huge turn on being the man for a change!

Click here to browse through our range of toys and take yourself on a sexy adventure…

What are some good tips for beginners?

You don’t have to spend hundreds of dollars to get a good toy. A simple thirty dollar vibe can give you a lot of pleasure.
It’s better to buy a few cheap toys than one top of the range toy. Buy lots of cheaper toys, see which ones you like and then maybe invest in a deluxe model or two.
Always invest in lube, especially for anal play. Lube always makes sex better and for any anal fun it is vital. Buy lots and use it a lot.
Hygiene is really important, so make sure you keep them super clean. Sex toy cleaner is ideal for this.
As with all sexual skills practice makes perfect. Yes that’s right the more you play with your toys the more fun you can have with them..!
For couples, communication is always the way to have better sex. The more you talk about your sex life the better it will be. It really is that simple.

Love

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Advice and Tips on How to Use Sex Toys

Do you want to experiment with adult toys? Either on your own or with your partner? Check out this advice on how to use sex toys for beginners…

If you want to know how to play with adult toys there are some simple tips and advice you can follow no matter what toys you are using and whether you are flying solo or with a partner.

Have a good look around and decide what you want to play with – Over the past few years the range of toys available to buy has exploded. From sex machines to remote controlled vibrators. From face dildos (yes they really do exist) to purposely designed sex furniture. With so much to choose from the best thing to do is have a good browse and see what tickles your fancy.
Make sure you can use them in privacy without being disturbed – Some are noisy and some are hard to conceal. With or without a partner, make sure you wont be disturbed when having a play and then you will be able to relax, let go and really enjoy yourself.
Practice makes perfect – Using adult toys is like any other skill. It takes practice (the more the better). But to be honest I don’t think this is a bad thing!?! You get to play with the toys a lot and as you play you get better and better!
Cleanliness is very important – Keep your toys clean! Invest in a good cleaner to make sure they are safe and hygienic (especially if you use them with multiple partners).
Advice for couples – As with pretty much everything to do with both sex and relationships, communication is the key to making things better. Talk about what toys you want to use, how you want to use them and how they can be used to make your sex life even better for both of you.
Don’t take it too seriously and just have fun – They are called toys for a reason! Play, play, play!
Experiment A LOT – You never know what you might like until you try it! Have you ever looked at type of food and thought it looked horrible. But when you try it you realize that it’s really tasty and delicious? Well it’s the same with adult toys, they might not look appealing but don’t let that put you off, just give them a go and you might just be very pleasantly surprised!
Anal play needs lots of lube – If you are new to anal play always remember to use lots and lots of lube. The butt doesn’t create its own lubrication so it’s really important to add lube. This will stop it from being painful and make sure it is much, much more fun.

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Love
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How to Fuck with a Strap On (Advice)

Do you want to learn how to fuck with a strap-on? Are you keen to give it a go but want to learn some tips and advice before you dive in?

Are you looking for some advice?

Do you want to know…

How to fuck a guy with a strap-on?
How to fuck a girl with a strap-on?

You are in the right place! There are only a few really simple tips and techniques that you need to follow to learn how to fuck with one on and you will be good to go.

A quick note about anal sex – If you are planning to fuck a man or a woman in the ass with a strap-on you should be extra careful. The anus is much easier to tear than a vagina and strap-on sex can be clumsy at first so your first time is something you need to take care with. Don’t just go at it like a porn star! Use lots and lots of lube and read this article on how to have anal sex to make sure it is fun and not a painful or a very un-sexy disaster.

Getting the right toy for the job – Don’t go for the biggest dildo you can find! Start off small and work your way up. Some harnesses can take multiple different dildos so you can play with different cocks without buying a new harness. I recommend investing your money in good a quality harness, preferably one with a bullet vibe so you can grind your clit into the action as well.

Picking the best positions – Keep it simple while you practice. Doggy style or missionary are both great. You want plenty of control over your hips and room to move so you can get the right thrusting action for your lover.

Giving some extra stimulation – (AKA a reach around 😉 ). Always offer a little extra stimulation when you are first learning how to fuck with one. It will help turn your partner on and keep them relaxed and horny. This in turn will help you feel more relaxed and confident as you wield your brand new cock!

Practice makes perfect – Fucking with strap-on’s is a skill and you will get much better at it with practice!

Top tip – Practice putting it on when you are alone so when the time comes to try it with your lover you don’t fumble around too much and lose the moment.

Never forget good communication – Before during and after! As with all sexual experimentation and play, good communication is essential. The more you and your partner talk about sex the better it will be!

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If you decide to give it a go and this advice helps please comment below sharing your experiences of how it went for you.

Also please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or need any more strap-on advice.

Good luck and enjoy!

Love

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