Month: February 2013

Learn the skills and then go have some fun…!

• So you want some good blowjob advice?
• You want to know how to give your man some really good head?
• You want to learn how to blow his mind?

Well, you are in the right place. I LOVE giving blowjobs and to be honest I’ve had quite a lot of practice. Tee hee…! 😉

Lola’s top tips for giving good blow-jobs.

1. Make sure he is clean – If he needs to go clean his dick just tell him to get it sorted out. 99% of guys will happily wash themselves if it means they will get it sucked. The other 1% is so lazy you shouldn’t even talk to him let alone go down on him!!!! From your point of view you want to enjoy this and there is nothing nicer to suck on than a freshly washed erection!
2. Tease him to begin with – Play with his hair, bite his neck, suck his nipples, kiss his stomach, run your hands up and down his inner thighs. You want him to be horny and fully hard before you even think about touching his cock.
3. Then tease him some more – Don’t start sucking on his cock straight away. Lick it up and down. Kiss his balls. Give him that porn star style look as he pleads with his eyes for you to make him cum…I love the power I feel when I am giving a man head.
4. Time to start sucking – Imagine a nice big fat popsicle. Now imagine sucking it. This is exactly what you need to do to his cock. Just suck up and down it doing your best not to catch him with your teeth.
5. Get you hands involved – Wank him off with one hand at the same time as sucking him off. Tickle his balls and if you feel adventurous tickle his ass as well (most guys love this even if they wont admit they do).
6. Speed it up – If you want to increase his arousal just suck harder and faster.
7. Slow it down – Keep on teasing him. If you think he is getting close to climax, slow it down again and make him even more desperate to cum.
8. Spit or swallow, it’s your call – Every guy I’ve ever met loves it when his girl swallows his cum, but this is your choice not his! If you don’t want him to cum in your mouth when he gets close take his dick out and finish him off with your hands.
9. Now be gentle – Just like a clit, straight after orgasm the penis goes hyper sensitive. You can carry on sucking for a while but remember to be very, very gentle.
10. Let him recover – Don’t expect him to return the favor straight away. Let him rest and recover a bit before you demand whatever it is you feel like demanding…! (Don’t wait to long though or he might just fall asleep on you…Grrrrr!)

Don’t forget practice makes perfect. Now you have all the advice on blow-jobs all you have to do is go away and practice it as much as possible! I don’t know about you but to me that sounds like a lot of fun!

Love

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NOTE – This post is about how to give good head to a man. Or in other words how to give a good blow-job. If you want to learn how to go down on a woman read this post on how to lick pussy…

• So you want to blow your man’s mind?
• You want to suck his cock so well he will love you forever? 😉
• You need simple, easy to learn advice on how to give really good head?

Good! You are in exactly the right place. I have been enjoying sucking cock for a long time now and have done a lot of research and even more practice!

Here are my beginner’s blow-job tips and below I will list my advanced tips:

• If his cock isn’t clean, make him go wash it! – Not only will this be nicer, but you will also enjoy it more and that will be better for him as well. If you aren’t sure about getting him to do this just trust me… Any man will happily wash his cock if he knows he is going to get his dick sucked and if he doesn’t then you need to ditch his lazy, ass!
• Tease him! – Run your hands up his thighs. Kiss his neck, his chest, his nipples and his belly way before your mouth goes anywhere near his cock. You want him rock hard and desperate for more by the time you get down there.
• Hold the base of his cock with one hand – This keeps it exactly where you want it. It makes it harder for him to shove it too deep into your throat and once you get going you can use this hand to wank his dick. (Either while you suck the tip or while you rest your mouth).
• More teasing – Once you get down to his cock, don’t just go straight onto it with your mouth fully open. Instead lick it, kiss it, run your tongue up and down it. Suck and tickle his balls, run your fingers along his skin. Watch his cock twitch and his breathing get heavier as you do this and you will know you are getting him hot and horny.
• Imagine your favorite popsicle! – How would you enjoy it? You would lick it and suck right? Well that’s all you need to do with his cock. Do your best to keep your teeth out of the way (unless he of course asks you to bite it) and suck up and down his cock.
• Keep a nice steady rhythm – If all you do is just keep sucking up and down his dick with a steady tempo sooner or later he will cum.
• Use your hands – Either to give your mouth a rest, or while you suck the top of his cock. He will love this. In fact sometimes, if I’m struggling to make him cum with my mouth I will finish him off with my hands as it is much easier to go faster.
• Increase the speed to blow his mind – When you want him to reach orgasm go faster, Try and keep a steady rhythm but increase the tempo. Imagine how you like to be fucked when you want to cum. Just keep ongoing and wait for his balls to explode. If you don’t want him to cum in your mouth, take his cock out at the last minute and finish him off with your hands.
• After he has cum – The tip of his penis will be super sensitive, so if you continue giving stimulation be very, very gentle (in fact this might be too much for him so keep an eye on his reactions).
• Leave him alone for a while – This one came from Jack (thanks @jack) when he proof read this blog post. He says he loves cuddling after a blow-job but he doesn’t want to be pestered for sex immediately or have deep and meaningful conversations about where the relationship is going! Just let him enjoy the wind down process for a few minutes. He will talk when he wants to. (Keep and eye out for him dozing off though, unless of course you are tired as well, in which case you can just snuggle up and drift off together).

Ok, once you have got that lot practiced and fully mastered it’s time to move onto the advanced tips.

• Porn star eyes – As you are going down on him, look up at him with a long, sexy, deep-eyed stare. If his eyes are closed just pause for a second or two and he is sure to open them and look down at you.
• Use saliva – Have a drink handy to keep your mouth from getting dry and make sure you cover his dick in spit. It makes it feel much sexier for him. Some guys like it if you actually spit on their dick, but it might be too much for less kinky guys.
• Learn how to deep throat – That’s a whole blog post on its own! Click this link to learn how to give deep throat blowjobs…
• Use a toy on his butt – Ok I’m going to let you into a little secret. All guys love having their ass played with, it’s just that a lot of them are scared to admit it! I’ve found a little bullet vibe tickling my man’s ass as I suck him off takes his orgasmic pleasure to another level.
• Swallow…Always swallow – I have an ex who said it’s not a proper blow job unless you swallow. Now he was half joking but I know what he meant. Guys love it when their partner swallows their cum. It is very, very sexy for them, so if you can manage it, do it and get extra brownie points (or should that be blowie points? 😉 ) .

One final tip – PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT! Like all other sexual skills, practice helps you get better and if, like me you love sucking cock then this is no bad thing.

Ok, so I hope this helps you on your quest to learn how to give head. If you have any questions please comment below.

Love

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Do you need some easy too follow tips and advice?

Giving a man good head is easy once you get used to it. But at first it can be a bit intimidating. So I’ve compiled a list of simple to follow step-by-step blow-job tips to help you get this skill mastered.

• Set some rules – If you don’t want him to cum in your mouth tell him. Ask him to give you some warning of when he is close to orgasm so you can finish him off with your hands. (Sometimes it’s  nice to see that cum shooting out). Also if you don’t want him to be rough with you now is the time to let him know. Sometimes guys can get a bit carried away so just tell him to be gentle before you get started.
• Make sure he is clean and fresh – If he needs to wash his dick or take a shower then tell him. Don’t put up with poor hygiene. Don’t worry about this one, as once he knows he is going to get some oral action I’m sure he will be happy to wash his dick! (If he isn’t then you need to get rid of him!)
• If possible get him to tidy up his pubes – This one is much easier in a relationship. If he uses hair removal cream or a razor on the base of his cock and his balls it makes it much, much nicer for you kiss and to lick.
• Tease him and take your time – Don’t start sucking straight away. Tease him first. Kiss his neck, tickle his chest and nibble his belly. This will have him hard and throbbing well before his cock goes in your mouth.
• Hold his cock still – Use one of your hands on the base of his cock to keep it in place. This gives you more control and you can also use it to give him more pleasure.
• Keep on teasing – When you are ready to put him in your mouth, just keep on teasing him a little bit longer. Kiss his balls, run your tongue along his inner thighs, lick up and down the shaft of cock.
• Use lots of saliva – Keep a drink nearby to help your mouth stay moist and make sure his cock gets nice and wet with your saliva. He will LOVE this!
• Suck him like your favorite Popsicle – Imagine sucking on a long round popsicle. Just do exactly the same with his cock. Go up and down it whilst sucking and do your best to keep your teeth away from the sensitive tip.
• Read his signals – Listen to his breathing, and the noises he makes. Watch the movement of his hips and his legs. You will know you are getting it right if he starts to react with increased arousal.
• Go faster – Increase the tempo gradually as he gets more and more aroused.
• Tickle his balls – If you want you can use your spare hand to lightly cup and tickle his balls.
• Play with his ass – If you think he would like it (most guys do, they are just scared to admit it), reach a finger around and tickle his ass. If you are going to insert a finger make sure you lube up first.
• Spit or swallow this bit is up to you – Most guys love it if you let them cum in your mouth and then swallow it but this is up to you not him. If you don’t want him to cum in your mouth pull out just before he reaches orgasm and bring him off with your hands.
• Now go really gentle – After he has cum, his cock (especially the tip) will be hypersensitive, so go very gently as he comes down from his climax.
• Give him time to wind down – Once you have finished, give him time to rest and relax. Sure you can give him a cuddle but don’t pester him with what he would call “dumb girlie questions” now is not the time!

So you now have some top-notch blowjob tips to go away and practice.  As always practice makes perfect, the more you do this the better you get and the more you can blow his mind.

Love

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