3 Girls a Day Review

  • Dating Online AdviceDo you want to learn how to meet women online?
  • Are you sick of getting no replies or even worse bitchy put-downs?
  • Do you want to use dating sites to get laid or find love?

It’s not as easy as it sounds right? My name is Lola, I’m the owner of SecretErotica.com and I am here to help you out! 🙂 I was offered a free review copy of “3 Girls a Day” by its creator Todd Valentine. Todd’s new program claims to help you get as many women as possible from dating sites such as Match.com, OK Cupid and Plenty of Fish.

Now before you listen to my opinion on this matter you might think “why should I listen to a woman about this”? It’s a good question. After all women don’t know what it is like to be a guy struggling to get laid online right? Well normally this would be true, but there are three very good reasons why my opinion might be seriously useful to you:

As the owner of this site I see a LOT of guys joining my community trying to get laid and making just about EVERY mistake in the book. I mean I feel for them, I really do. But damn they need to check out this program to stop this stuff!

BTW do NOT join this site thinking you are going to get laid! My female members are here to read and share erotic stories NOT to get hit on by horny guy’s lol! I personally use dating sites a lot to meet guys and again I have watched guys make so many dumb mistakes that basically ruin any chance they have with me with in seconds of me coming into contact with them! I love ladies as well as men and I’ve used a few different dating sites to pull plenty of very sexy chicks.

With all that said, because of my job here at SecretErotica.com, because of my own experience with dating guys online and because of my bisexual tendencies I really can help you out. So this is my honest and detailed review of this new program. I will go into detail soon, but first I want to give you a very short and to the point review:

This product is excellent and well worth the small amount you will pay for it. I am skeptical as to whether you will get three women a day! BUT I am totally 100% confident that it will help you dramatically improve the amount of attractive women you can hook up with. If you want to discover the secret techniques Todd teaches click here to get started straight away.

Now for a more detailed review

Just who is this Todd Valentine and why should you care?

Todd Valentine ThreeTodd is a full time professional dating coach. Basically it is his job to teach guys how to get laid and/or find a hot girl to settle down with. So he knows what he is talking about and unlike some so called dating experts he walks the walk.
He manages multiple girlfriends and fuck buddies plus he uses online dating to get laid whenever he wants. You could call him a lucky guy but actually he studied and worked his ass off to learn about how to attract women and IMO that is what makes him such a good teacher. There is no theory here, it is all real wisdom that has been thoroughly field tested.

A breakdown of what you get:

So, what you need to know about 3 Girls a Day is that the level of detail Todd provides is crazy. It must have taken him so long to figure this stuff out and then create an easy to learn, quick to apply ways of teaching it. Some products I review just ooze quality and this is one of them.

  • Video training – The most powerful and important part of the program. Step by step, in-detail advice on everything from creating a profile to taking a girl home for sex.
  • Written training – The best way to learn and internalize information is to absorb it in different ways. The written version of the program really helps hammer home the most important points that you need to know.
  • Bonuses – Free bonuses to help you succeed and achieve your goals. REAL LIFE phone conversations of Todd chatting to women to help you really understand how powerful his techniques are. An interview with his smoking hot girlfriend where she says exactly how she feels about what Todd teaches.
  • 60 day, no-quibbles, full money back guarantee – To me this makes it a no-brainer. You have nothing to lose and a lot to gain!

Any down sides to the program?

I tried to find flaws in the program but I really struggled. It is very clear that he knows what he is talking about and that his knowledge comes from hard earned experience. But if I was going to criticize it I would say I’m not convinced that if you buy it you will get three women every day! But he is confident that if you do as he says you can easily do it. So I guess the only way to find out is to give it a go…

My final conclusion on 3 Girls A day

Girl onlineI think you are looking to improve your dating life. If you want to get laid using online dating sites. If you feel you deserve better than your current situation you really need to check it out.

The product is very cheap, Todd gives away a huge amount of value and in my opinion the advice he shares is worth ten times the low price he is currently charging.So take charge of your love life, get the women you deserve and step up to the next level of your life by clicking here and taking action.

Good luck!


 Click here now and change your love life for the better

Tips for the Ladies

Ladies, check out this post and learn how to have as much fun as possible in the Secret Erotica community and sexy library…

How to get the most fun out of Secret Erotica

Welcome to the Secret Erotica blog. I wrote this post to try and help make sure you get as much fun as possible out of our secret sexy community. So far we’ve found that most of our female members come to the site for four main reasons:

1. To read erotic stories.

2. To share their own erotic stories.

3. To chat and interact with like-minded people.

4. To find and meet a real world playmate.

The simple steps below will help you on your Secret Erotica journey to find fun and fantasy in whatever way you choose…

Step one – If you haven’t done it all ready claim your free membership! Click here to find out more or watch this short video to help you make up your mind.

Click here to claim your FREE membership

Step two – To read erotic stories, once you have created an account visit the sexy stories library and browse to your heart’s content! If you find some stories that you really like please be kind and put a nice comment in the replies section so the author knows you enjoyed their work.

Step three – To share your own writings and sexy stories, you will find easy to follow instructions to help you on your way. Once you have posted your story make sure you share it a few groups to get it seen by lots of our horny members!

Step four – To find people to chat with, search the groups menu and find the areas that interest you the most. Join in and see where it takes you!

Step five – To find a real world playmate, the first step is to make sure your profile and your avatar are funny/sexy/interesting. Then join in the community activity or browse our members and see who tickles your fancy.

Top Tip – One thing we’ve noticed is that members who write and then share sexy erotic stories get a lot more attention than those who don’t!

There you go. Some nice easy tips to help you get the most from the site.

Have a good one!
PS – Have you had any good or bad experiences with sexy online communities? Why not share your story below…

Advice for the Guys

Guys we have worked hard to make this site as fun as possible. So check out this quick guide and learn how to get the most from it as easily as possible…

How to have a much fun as possible here on our site

  • If you want to flirt with lots of sexy people?
  • If you want to read very naughty erotic stories?
  • If you would like to share some of your own sexy stories?
  • Or if you would like to find an online or real world playmate?

Then check out these easy to follow steps to help you get the most out of Secret Erotica as quickly as possible.

First things first create your free account! – If you aren’t a member yet then you should be. ALL the really good stuff is hidden behind closed doors and your membership is the key to those doors. If you’re not sure then check out this video to help you decide either way…

Click this link and grab your FREE membership

Upload an Avatar – No matter what you are doing on the site. Step one is always to upload an avatar. It doesn’t have to be of you. It can be sexy, funny, or both but you really need to get one added as an avatar is the best way to stand out from the crowd.

If you want to flirt with lots of sexy people – Once you’ve added your avatar, add some interesting
information to your profile then, join some of the groups, and start interacting with the other members.

Top tip – Use the keyword cloud on the right hand side. Pick a word that turns you on, click on it and see what you find.

If you want to share your own erotic stories – First add your story, then share it in the library, the groups and the main activity wall so lots of other members will get to read it as well! Don’t worry if you are a newbie writer we have a group to help you out and lots of good advice to get you started… Just go for it!

If you would like to find an online or a real world playmate – You need to do a little bit of everything listed above. Definitely make sure your avatar and your profile is as sexy/funny/interesting as possible. Definitely join some groups and start having fun with other members. Also you really should think about writing a story and adding it to the library. Using a horny fantasy to interest your playmates is a sure fire way to meet some cool people to play with!

Can you think of anymore? If so add your suggestions to the comments section below and I will update this list.

I hope this helps.

Have a good one!

How to flirt online – Tips for the guys

There are lot of very sexy, very horny people online. But flirting online can be tricky, especially for the guys as they usually do the chasing!

If you want to meet a sexy woman online there are some simple things you can to do to massively improve your chances.

Just as importantly there are some really important things that you must NEVER do if you want to succeed in meeting women online. As the joint owner of Secret Erotica I see some guys doing really well and having some good fun with attractive ladies.

BUT I also see some really daft stuff. Guys using the same tired old tactics to try and get laid. These tactics never work, so they are just wasting time and energy for no good reason. Flirting online isn’t that hard, it’s a skill and with a tiny bit of practice anyone can get much, much better at it!

Check out this list of do’s and don’ts to help you with your online flirting skills.

(I will list the don’ts first to get them out of the way then quickly move on to the positive stuff you can do to help you with your online flirtations!) Don’t do any of these EVER…!

  • Don’t bombard the ladies with instant chat requests.
  • Don’t send them repeated private msgs, especially copy and pasted ones!
  • Don’t get straight down to hardcore dirty talk with a woman you have no previous interaction with. Even on sites like this you need to ease up a little bit. Remember men get turned on like a light switch (instantly) women get turned on like a volume knob (more gradually).

Do these and you will do better than most men!

  • Do create a funny, sexy, or interesting profile.
  • Do add lots of details in the “about me” section of your profile.
  • Do gather up the best photos that you have of yourself. Even if you don’t add them to your profile you can send them via private msgs to any ladies that are interested.
  • Do take it slowly and step by step. Women get a lot of attention online and they are also concerned about stalkers etc. So be patient.
  • Do bring value wherever you are! This is huge! If you add sexy stories, funny jokes, cool pictures etc. You will come across as a cool guy.
  • Do interact with lots of women, not just the ones you want to get naked with. On and offline women keep an eye out for each other and talk about guys. If you are friendly and cool with all the ladies you bump into then this will be a big help in the long term.

One last tip, if you haven’t done it yet claim your free Secret Erotica membership here… It’s the sexiest social media community online and best of all its free!

Have a good one!
PS – Feel free to check out this video to find out more about our sexy community

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What are the Sexiest Social Media Sites for Naughty Fun?

Social media is an amazing online phenomenon. Social sites can be a great place to share erotic stories, flirt and even meet people for sexy fun. But some sites are definitely better than others…

Do you like flirting and chatting with sexy people online?

I love it! In fact that’s why I built this website (well actually I got some geeks to build it for me but you know what I mean lol).

With the explosion of social media websites over the past few years there are some great choices out there and most people tend to play around with at least two or three.

I’ve made a list of my faves below, I’ve put the good points and the bad points for each one and also links so we can hook up and play together… Yay! 🙂

Secret Erotica

Ok, ok, I admit I’m biased BUT the reason Secret Erotica exists is because I wasn’t happy with the other networks and wanted to make a much better one for me and everyone else to enjoy.

Good points:

  • As it’s purely for sexy fun there is (almost) no censorship and no one who gets offended if they find something naughty.
  • Simple to use and easy to interact with other members.
  • Instant chat (yes it can be used one handed 😉 )
  • STRICT policy on trolls, bullies, idiots and weirdo’s.
  • Library packed with free erotic stories.
  • Writers can share their own sexy stories.
  • Personal touch, the owners of the site are active members.

Click here to claim your free Secret Erotica membership…

Not so good points:

  • It’s new so there are still a few little glitches to be ironed out.
  • As it is new there aren’t millions of users (…yet).


Good points:

  • Quite random this can be a lot of fun.
  • Lots of sexy people to play with.
  • Good for finding offers on sex toys etc.

Not so good points:

  • No sexy library.
  • Some censorship, but you can get away with a lot 😉 .
  • Quite a lot of weirdo’s.
  • Impersonal, I have no idea who owns Twitter but I’m sure they aren’t following me…!

To follow me on Twitter click here…


Good points:

  • Plenty of people to play with.
  • Not too much censorship.
  • Easy to use.

Not so good points

  • Doesn’t let you add people you don’t have a connection with, which makes it really hard to make new friends.
  • Not a dedicated sex site so non-flirty members often won’t approve of your shenanigans.
  • The way the feeds work mean you can easily lose touch with people.
  • They will restrict your account at the drop of hat.
  • LOTS of creepy guys.
  • No erotic library.

You can hook up with my personal Facebook page here…


  • Lots of sexy people.
  • Easy to use.
  • Lots of groups to join.

Not so good points

  • Really strict censorship, accounts get banned all the time.
  • Not a dedicated sex site so non sexy members can get a bit grumpy or judgmental.
  • Google has this annoying habit of trying to make all your Google accounts join up! I might not want my YouTube friends to know what I’m up to on G+ thank you very much!!!
  • You can’t send private messages. You have to go through ‘Hangouts’ – WTF..!?!?!
  • Google hangouts mean you can get hounded a lot by idiots.

Check out the Secret Erotica G+ page here…


Good points:

  • Very little censorship
  • Lots of sexy people
  • Some good adult stories

Not so good points

  • Not great for one on one interactions, no chat etc.
  • Really it’s more of a blog platform than a social media site.

You can hook up with me on Tumblr here…

So, my honest opinion is that if you are looking for a sexy social media community to play in Secret Erotica is the best!

Check out this video to find out why…

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