The In’s and Out’s of Cybersex

Cybersex. Sexting. Camming. Phone sex. I love them all (as long as its with the right person).

My Personal Experience

One thing we can all be very sure of is that no matter how technology evolves, horny people will always find a way to use it for sex. From the early phone sex lines, naughty texts, phone sex to cyber sex and web “camming”, us humans are a horny lot and love communicating with others in a sexy way.

It makes me wonder, back in the days when Native American Indians communicated using smoke signals, did they flirt with each other across the mountain tops? 😉

Phone sex – A big favorite of mine, with no keyboard, laptop or mouse to get in between me and my lover. Swapping naughty stories, sharing fantasies and playing with ourselves until we both cum… I love it!

Sexting – Sexy texting is great for mental foreplay. Its great fun to warm each other up with naughty stories and fantasies by text a day or two before I see my lover again. By the time we actually meet up, were as horny as hell and already gagging for it!

Cyber sex (instant msg-ing) – Instant text chat, I’ve done this a lot and its one of my favorite types of cyber fun. I can delve into my partners mind and there is so much left to the imagination that I can’t help but let my thoughts run away with me.

Cyber sex (video chat) – This one is definitely for the brave hearted! Getting naked on web cam and then doing naughty things feel so fucking sexy but you’ve got to be really confident otherwise it can feel very embarrassing!

I hope it goes without saying that with any of these you need to be very careful about giving out your personal contact details. The huge majority of people are out for no more than a good time but both men and women can get a little creepy and obsessive, so please be careful if you do give it a go!

Our community is very secure and can be as safe and anonymous as you want it to be. We have instant chat free for everyone and video chat for our premium members (coming very soon), which lets you delve into cybersex with the knowledge that when you sign out there will be no consequences. You can check it out and/or join for free here…

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Let me know your thoughts on cyber sex in all its glorious form using the comments box below.

PS – Here are some tips to help you stay safe online…

Anal Orgasms for Women – Everything You Need to Know

Did you know that women can cum just from being fucked in the ass? Its true all you need to do is learn how…

What a treat it is to get fucked up the ass! It’s one of my all time favorite sexual activities. Most people don’t know this, but all women can have an orgasm from anal sex.

A woman has orgasms from anal stimulation when the penis hits through the anal wall and onto the G-spot in the vagina. The nerve endings in the sphincter and the tightness of it make anal stimulation a huge pleasure, (if done correctly).

A great number of women not only find anal orgasms amazing but they would definitely like more of them. Others of course, are yet to experience the fun and excitement of anal ecstasy. Some women feel that they cannot ask for anal because of stigma attached and I go into that in this blog post: Lola’s perspectives on anal sex.

If you want to try anal sex and possibly even delve into anal orgasms, here are some tips to make it happen:

  1. Communication is essential. Talk it through with one another. You both need to know how and when anal sex begins and you both need to help guide the penis in gently.
  2. Arousal.There is no point shoving anything up anywhere until you are horny and ready for cock! Having a few orgasms beforehand will heighten the nerve endings on the G-spot and make it easier to orgasm.
  3. Juicy. Lube is essential. Buy some good quality sexual lube and use a lot of it. This will make it much less likely to hurt.
  4. Take your time. There is no rush. Start by opening it up with a finger and then move on to small toys or a couple of fingers. When you are both ready and comfortable then you can move onto his penis.
  5. Relax. Get it right. Once the muscles have relaxed and the penis is fully in then it will not hurt. There could be a few positions that are uncomfortable for you and some women can’t have it too deep, so play around and find out what is best for both of you.

Ladies please checkout our sexy community here, you will find tons of like-minded women to chat with. Men follow my advice and hopefully one of your fantasies will be ticked off the list. If you have any questions please comment below.

Lots more sexiness to follow…