Why I Love Anal…

Some girls love anal, some girls hate it. I love and in this post I’m going to share with you why I love it so much…

Lola’s Perspectives on Anal Sex

Here’s the usual story between men and women when it comes to anal sex.

He really wants to try it. It turns him on thinking about it, he tries to talk his lady into giving it a go but….

She doesn’t want to try it. She is scared of the pain, the mess and the thought of it doesn’t turn her on.

This is a real shame. Firstly the guys don’t get to enjoy one of their top fantasies and the women miss out on a whole new area of sexy fun that they could be having with their bodies!

Ladies, I’m going to make this point very clear so you understand…
If you are not having anal sex and enjoying it, you really are missing out on a lot of fun!

I understand that you might have some concerns and I will address them now but you need to accept the fact that anal sex can be mind-blowingly good if you get it right.

The usual concerns about anal sex:

The mess – Don’t worry about it! I can tell you from lots of personal experience it’s not messy! Obviously there is a time and place for anal fun, if you need a “number two” now is not the time to experiment! So pick your time, make sure you don’t need to “go” and are feeling nice and clean to help you get over this one.

The pain – It doesn’t have to be painful! Most women have had the annoying experience of some stupid guy just trying to shove a dry finger or cock up there and experienced the pain and shock that goes along with that! BUT with patience, a man with a gentle touch and a lot of lube and practice it doesn’t have to hurt much at all. I can’t say there will be no pain at first as there might be. But it will very quickly disappear as you learn to relax and then the pleasure will start to kick in.

The feeling of being degraded – OK, for some of you this extra level of taboo might be a serious turn on! But for others it will be a concern that you need to address. If you have negative thoughts about anal sex you might feel trying it is degrading, but if you think of it as something fun and exciting for you to try with your lover you won’t. Chat to some women who enjoy it. Perhaps check out our sexy community and see what the members think. Seriously I can’t say this strongly enough – anal sex is amazing once you get over your fears!

Feeling embarrassed or judged for wanting it – A lot of women would really love to try it but are worried that their man might judge them for wanting to give it a go. I understand this fear but to be honest my opinion is if any man does judge you for this you need to ask yourself is he worth having in the first place?

Look, I know I’m rare and most women aren’t (yet) into anal but there is good reason for that. It’s because I’ve tried it, got over any concerns and love it. I can have orgasms from anal sex and it adds a whole new level of naughtiness to my sex sessions, so my advice to you is to give it a go!

Feel free to add comments or questions below.

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