My first encounter with a woman gave me mixed emotions. For a start, neither of us should have gone there as we both had partners. In our defense mine was a jerk (about to be dumped) and her’s was away for a year but that’s not the point we were cheating on our boyfriends and shouldn’t have been. As well as feeling guilty about this I also did not feel able to enjoy myself fully as I didn’t know what I was doing and felt a bit out of my depth.
We played in a hockey tournament together and we had been teasing each other for the past year, building up sexual tension and chemistry.
Then one day it happened. We were drunk, it was late and everybody had left or gone to bed. We settled down to sleep in the spare bed. I was just drifting off and I heard ‘fuck this’ and she leapt on me. In hind sight I should have expected this but at the time I didn’t, so it was a big shock!
Her lips were the softest I had ever kissed but of course they would be as I was used to kissing men. I didn’t know where to put my hands or what to do next. Thankfully she took the lead and I do still wonder today if I was her first time with a girl? (I don’t think it was, I think she just said that to make me feel better).
She undressed me, sucked my breasts and licked me out. She even dry humped me for a while and although it was a real turn on watching her body rock above mine I could not relax because I was cheating and I didn’t know what the fuck I was doing! There was no way I was going to have an orgasm.
When it came to my turn, I fumbled about on her body, I had no technique and didn’t have a clue what I was doing. I basically copied everything she did to me but in a very clumsy way. I remember thinking “what do I do”? Even though I have the same body as her I still didn’t know how to make her cum. The taste of her pussy didn’t help either; she was slightly bitter and at the time I found this a turn off. Anyway we messed about with each other until we were bored and fell asleep. We laughed about it privately the next day and never spoke about it again and funnily enough we never came on to each other again.
Although on the whole, my first girl on girl action was terrible, it did not put me off. In fact it made me more determined to find out what I should be doing with a lady. I searched Google and found pages on ‘how to please a woman’ and ‘the ins and outs of lesbian sex’. I practiced what I could on myself and the rest in my head until I felt more confident and was ready to try again. Then all I needed was experience and that all came in good time. 😉
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