Are you looking for some advice?
Do you want to know…
- How to fuck a guy with a strap-on?
- How to fuck a girl with a strap-on?
You are in the right place! There are only a few really simple tips and techniques that you need to follow to learn how to fuck with one on and you will be good to go.
A quick note about anal sex – If you are planning to fuck a man or a woman in the ass with a strap-on you should be extra careful. The anus is much easier to tear than a vagina and strap-on sex can be clumsy at first so your first time is something you need to take care with. Don’t just go at it like a porn star! Use lots and lots of lube and read this article on how to have anal sex to make sure it is fun and not a painful or a very un-sexy disaster.
Getting the right toy for the job – Don’t go for the biggest dildo you can find! Start off small and work your way up. Some harnesses can take multiple different dildos so you can play with different cocks without buying a new harness. I recommend investing your money in good a quality harness, preferably one with a bullet vibe so you can grind your clit into the action as well.
Picking the best positions – Keep it simple while you practice. Doggy style or missionary are both great. You want plenty of control over your hips and room to move so you can get the right thrusting action for your lover.
Giving some extra stimulation – (AKA a reach around 😉 ). Always offer a little extra stimulation when you are first learning how to fuck with one. It will help turn your partner on and keep them relaxed and horny. This in turn will help you feel more relaxed and confident as you wield your brand new cock!
Practice makes perfect – Fucking with strap-on’s is a skill and you will get much better at it with practice!
Top tip – Practice putting it on when you are alone so when the time comes to try it with your lover you don’t fumble around too much and lose the moment.
Never forget good communication – Before during and after! As with all sexual experimentation and play, good communication is essential. The more you and your partner talk about sex the better it will be!
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If you decide to give it a go and this advice helps please comment below sharing your experiences of how it went for you.
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Good luck and enjoy!
Love
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