Author: jack

Why Men Love Getting Blow-Jobs

Most guys love getting blow jobs. Why is that? What is it they love so much about them? Do they prefer them to intercourse..?

  • Why do I love getting blowjobs so much?
  • What is it about them, that can be better than sex?

Don’t get me wrong here, I love having sex but if I’m honest I prefer blow-jobs a lot of the time.

The main reason is this – When I have an orgasm from a blow-job, its much, much more intense than from sex. I’m not sure why this is, but it is definitely the case. Maybe its because I often wear condoms during sex? Maybe it’s just a different more intense type of stimulation? But if I’m honest I think it is mainly down to focus.

When I’m fucking a woman I have to concentrate on lots of things…Getting a nice rhythm going, lasting long enough for her to enjoy herself, picking a position that is fun for both of us, etc, etc. Again don’t get me wrong here, I’m certainly not complaining, I really do enjoy having sex. BUT when I am getting a blow-job, I don’t have to concentrate on ANYTHING apart from the sensations of pleasure I am feeling. I can just lie back, stay present, focus on what the lady is doing, relax and enjoy. This peace of mind, this ability to relax and focus on my own body and pleasure all build up to a much, much more powerful orgasm.

The other main reason is the out and out selfishness of it. The fact that a woman is concentrating all her efforts on giving me pleasure is a big turn on for me (and hopefully for her as well). When I’m going down on a woman, I want her to feel special, sexy and pampered, I love doing this and it makes me horny as hell. So when a girl is going down on me it’s the same but in reverse. If I ever end up sleeping with a woman who doesn’t like giving blow-jobs I’m afraid to say our relationship is doomed to be a short one!

So ladies, if you don’t give your man lots of blow-jobs I suggest you start to! Guys if you want more blow-jobs learn how to give your woman mind blowing orgasms and she is much more likely to oblige.

Make sure you comment below with your thoughts and questions. We always welcome and value your opinion!

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Have a good one!
Jack

What I Love About Secret Erotica

Obviously I am a bit biased as along with my business partner @lola I own the site BUT I still think it is awesome and here is why:

The members are awesome – We have a hardcore (no pun intended 😉 ) bunch of members who login pretty much every day. Then we also have loads of members who pay us a visit a few times a week. Finally we also have some regulars who pop in on the odd occasion when they are in the mood (aka they are horny and want to read a sexy story lol 😉 )

The activity – Funny jokes, sexy gifs and images of what our sexy members have been getting up too! Naughty chat rooms, open-minded people and lots more awesomeness.

The library is packed with free erotic stories – We have hundreds of top notch, super sexy free erotic stories. They have all been added by our members so there is true stories and real life confessions galore.

It is totally free to join in the fun – I love the fact that we don’t charge you money to get your membership. You can access all of this cool stuff for free!

There is no bullying or trolling allowed – We love our members and we will never let anyone mess with them. Trolls and bullies are banned for life!

All types of sexuality and genders are welcome – Our community is non-judgmental and open to all sexual orientations and genders.

So if that hasn’t convinced you to click here and claim your free membership, maybe this video will..?

If you have any questions about the site, please feel free to get in touch, or ask any question you have in the comments section below…

Have a good one!
Jack
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Cocks Are Like Candy – Women LOVE Cock

Guys really need to learn this and then relearn it and then learn it some more. If you remember this one important thing, your sex life will be much, much better for doing so!

Quick note – This is just a fun blog post. It’s full of generalizations and isn’t about bi/gay women. Just take it with a pinch of salt and feel free to comment after you have read it…

It was a good friend of mine who really drilled this one home for me. (I’ve been grateful ever since). WOMEN LOVE COCKS. I mean they really love them. They are like candy for big girls. Once he pointed this out, I used this piece of information with all the women I slept with. I made sure to always let them play and have fun with my cock, THEY LOVED IT!

At first glance this might not sound like rocket science but think about it. What do most guys love about women? They love their pussies for sure, but they often prefer boobs, bums or legs. Guys aren’t usually that obsessed with a woman’s pussy.

Women on the other hand are obsessed with cocks. It is their favorite part of a man’s body. They love looking at them, feeling them touching them and sucking them.

I’ll say it again…

“COCKS ARE LIKE CANDY TO WOMEN”
“WOMEN LOVE COCKS”

Guys, once you realize this it gives you the power to really have fun with a woman. She is biologically hardwired to want your dick. (By hard-wired I mean it’s in their biology to love cock). Your dick has the power to make her wet, make her horny and make her cum. Use this to your advantage.

If you are flirting with a girl and want to sleep with her introduce her to your cock. Get her to touch it, tell her it’s hard, tell her it’s aching to be released.

(Warning here for the social imbeciles – ONLY DO THIS IF THE VIBE IS RIGHT AND IT’S CLEAR SHE IS TURNED ON AND FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE. DO NOT DO THIS UNLESS YOU ARE SURE THE TIME IS RIGHT!)

She might tell you off for being naughty, she might pull her hand away, in fact she most probably will but she will still love it. Women love hard cocks more than soft cocks and if the cock is hard because of her she will love it even more. They can’t help but love it, it’s in their DNA!

If you are a bi or gay woman reading this, what do you think? Do you ladies get obsessed over your dildos? Guys have you noticed this with your woman? Is she obsessed with your cock? Put your comments below or join our private fantasy community to join in the fun here…

One last point to remember. Women LOVE SEXY TOYS! So if there is a special lady in your life why not treat her to a toy or two, put a huge grin on her face and make her as horny as hell…?

Have a good one!
Jack

Can Men and Women Be Friends? – A Man’s Perspective

It is an age old question and it is an important one. Can men and women be friends without attraction, love or sex getting in the way of it?

Some people are of the opinion that men and women can’t really be friends without attraction getting in the way of that friendship and causing issues either between the two friends or between the friends and their partners.

What’s my opinion of this? I completely disagree!

I have tons of female friends, some of whom I think are attractive and some I don’t, this doesn’t affect the friendship in any way shape or form. I also know at various times some of my female friends have been attracted to me (hard to believe, I know lol 😉 ).

First of all I think it’s very easy for men and women to be friends with no physical attraction between them. Not everybody fancies everybody else!

Secondly, I think it is possible for one friend to find another attractive without it getting in the way of the friendship. I have some very hot female friends and if I let my attraction towards them get in the way I would lose some amazing friends. We are all human we find people attractive all day, every single day, it’s what we do. It’s no biggie.

Thirdly, I think two friends can have mutual attraction act on it by getting it on OR not act on it and just accept the fact that they find each other hot and still be good friends. I have female friends who I’ve slept with and then gone back to being good friends with. Again no biggie!

To be honest I think this whole myth stems from insecurity. I think people who are insecure and scared of being not good enough or worry about being cheated on (or dumped) do a few things.

They assume that their partners will always be looking for a chance to cheat and see any close friendship as a perfect opportunity for this to happen.

Also, they assume because they are worrying about sex and cheating all the time that everyone else is thinking about it and that everyone is having sex behind their back.

Finally, they see genuine attraction and assume the absolute worse. Instead of realizing their partners will always find other people attractive, they worry about it and try and control their partners desires.

Ok I’m almost done with this rant. I’m sure as our readers are so awesome they won’t buy into this belief. If you do lets debate it using the comments below 🙂 .

If you do suffer from jealousy or insecurity, I feel for you. I’ve been there and it’s not nice! I suggest you do your best to get it handled. Read some books, take up meditation or get some therapy, you deserve better and so do your partners.

My final point is this, I think we all need to accept the fact that we all find people attractive all the time. Like I said it’s what we do. I get that it can be a little scary but the sooner we all get over our fears and accept that our lovers fancy lots of people the better. Who knows we might even think about sharing them and getting some more action ourselves and then the fun can really start…! 😉

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Have a good one!
Jack
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What Turns Me On About Women

Apart from the obvious good looks, there are so many cute little things about women that really turn me on. The best bit is that often women don’t even realise that what they are doing is so damn sexy…

A Man’s Perspective on Femininity

I was having a chat with Lola recently and was talking about the funny things I find attractive in a woman that aren’t that obvious. I realized there are probably a lot of things that women do without even realizing how sexy they are.

Now don’t get me wrong ladies I’m not suggesting that you go around trying to do all the things in this list to get a hot guy. But I think it would be cool if you realized how goddamn sexy, natural feminine energy can be to us guys.

Cute dancing – Not the sort of dancing you do when you’re out in a club trying to look hot or feeling the groove of some rocking beats. The dancing you do when your relaxed, chilling out at home, a tune comes on and you wiggle your hips and bounce about almost without even realizing it. I love it! It’s cute, sexy and kind of innocent all wrapped up in one little hip wiggle.

Wearing my clothes – Damn this one never fails to make me horny. After sleeping with a girl she borrows a shirt or hoody to wear, I have no idea why but this is very, very sexy!

Wearing more clothes – Of course I love seeing my partner naked but to be honest, women are often more sexy when they are dressed or partially dressed. Leaving something up to my imagination and leaving something I can slowly peel off is so fucking hot it’s untrue.

Bedrooms – Women’s bedrooms are hot. They are always really comfortable and often really cute. There is something about most women’s bedrooms that amplifies their femininity and makes me want to fuck them even more…Plus when they’re not looking I always like to check under the bed and see if I can find their sex toys! 😉

Smells – Women always seem to smell great. Not just their perfume but their hair, their clothes and…you guessed it their bedrooms. 🙂

Getting excited about tiny things – This one is massive. I had an ex once who loved my food. I would cook for her and she would get really excited about it and I would get horny and fuck her brains out. I think one thing us guys can learn from women is to not take life too seriously and to enjoy the little things more.

Putting on make-up and doing their hair – Again its pretty random but when I’m watching a woman doing her hair and put her make up on I can’t help but find it hot. She is totally absorbed in what she’s doing and I can just enjoy watching her.

When I looked at this list after I first wrote it I realized that it all boils down to the same thing really. Above and beyond looks and even personality, there is a feminine energy that is very, very sexy. It’s at its most powerful when the lady has no idea about how sexy she is and I love it!

Ladies, please don’t try and imitate this as it wont work, but do please keep being awesome, keep having sexy bedrooms and please never stop dancing around your house in your PJ’s..!

Have a good one!
JackPS – If you fancy chatting with me, Lola and lots of other members, make sure you check out our sexy community!

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