Up the Bum No Harm Done…

Up the Bum No Harm Done…

Anal Play Does Not Make You Gay!

FACT - Most men are scared of a woman going anywhere near their ass.

What’s the big deal boys? You get turned on by playing with girls' butts and you know most girls love it. Why can’t women repay the favor and give you some anal pleasure? Did you know men can orgasm from the prostrate gland (sometimes known as the male g-spot)?

You need to realize that a lot of women like fantasizing/playing with your ass. Personally I like playing with a man’s ass because I know how much fun I can give him. Also it’s like breaking down the last barrier. It only happens when there is a lot of trust and respect. The fact that a man let’s me play with his ass means we are comfortable with each other.

Losing your fears opens up doors! (Pun intended!)

Anal play does not make you gay!
It just means you like your butt to be played with. It would only be gay if it was a man playing with your butt (derrrrrh! ;-) ). If this is what scares you then you need to let go because you’re missing out on a whole new world of fun!

You will not be covered in poop!
There is a time and a place for anal play. You need to make sure you are showered and preferably hair free. That you don’t need to break wind or use the bathroom and if you struggle with constipation then you should think dramatically about increasing your water and fibre intake, this BTW is for more reasons than just butt play!

No pain no gain… (Only joking! ;-) )
Feeling pain is a legitimate concern but anal play does not have to be painful. There are 3 easy steps to follow… You need to stay relaxed, use plenty of lube and go slowly. If you follow these three steps there is no need at all to suffer for your pleasure.

Now we have the fear out the way we can look at the ways of stimulating your butt hole:

Rimming (licks to the butt hole)
It feels amazing and trying this can be your first step to anal pleasure. Try giving and receiving in the good old 69 position.

Finger (up your butt)
Get your woman to slide one in and curl it round to find and pleasure your prostate. Make sure she lubes up!

Anal beads
You can have a lot of fun with these. Try getting your woman to pull them out as you cum and your orgasm will be much more intense than usual. (Very good fun!).

Vibrating toys are awesome…
Give it a try. Don’t worry you are NOT gay if you play with one of these. The vibrations will stimulate your anus and massage your prostate YOU WILL ENJOY IT A LOT!

Strap on
Your woman can use one of these on you for some seriously fun role play (if you dare!). Its important to get the right strap-on!

There you go! Some advice to help you get started. Do your best to let go of your fears and it will be worth it. Anal play can increase intensity of orgasms, give you a new type of orgasm and add a whole new element to your sex life. So check out these toys and get started...

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14 thoughts on “Up the Bum No Harm Done…

  1. Yeah just so you all know, if you aren't trying this out you are seriously missing a world of pleasure here guys (And girls for that matter) I would definitely recommend at least trying it :anal: :69: :wank:

  2. Shawn Rampersad

    very nice n intrestin post its as i always say it does not make u gay in ne way n u cant hv enough fun wen u try dis dont b a baby be a man yr woman would love u 4 it

  3. I took my husband by surprise I didn't mention what I was going to do and he LOVED it. All of it.He said it blew his mind(not to mention...:) )!!!!!

  4. I've said this once and I'll say it again, TRY ANAL GUYS!!!!! Let your girl finger your ass while you fuck her, let your girl play with it, Let your guy play with it, fuck let anyone you are with play with it. You like fucking other people up the ass and they seem to like it so trust me you will too, like holy shit will you :anal: Play with your ass and youll cum fast ;-)

  5. John McLaughlin

    My first rimming was from a gal who had been telling me, while we were caressing one another, sprawled across a couch, after our first long-building mutual orgasm, that she thought her hubby was gay. Evidence? He really responded to ass-play...

    Curious, I asked her to show me what she meant. She got me sprawled, face down, legs well-parted. She stroked me up the backs of my thighs, caressing my butt-cheeks as she worked her finger-tips closer and closer, down and into my ass-crack, opening my buttocks with the upturned side of her hand, gently running her finger-tips in and in, until she was stroking my pucker. Then she leant down, her breath warm on my ass-crack as she approached her by-now undulating target. Her tongue-tip flickered out, running in slow circles, all around my softening, opening anus. I could not believe she was doing this; by now, I was moaning helplessly, letting her have her way with my guy-cunt. I had opened completely for her entering tongue tip, and she inserted it, deeper and deeper, still circling as I raised my hips, spreading wide, to let her have her way with my ass-hole. Time passed. I do not know how long she gently but persistently diddled me with her tongue tip and slippery fingers. Then I realized, from a dazed distance, that I was starting to crest, my long-ignored cock long, stiff and pulsating, my scrotum both loose and full. I began moaning, it turned into something close to a high, keening scream, as she got me further up on my tucked-under knees, and I pumped, gasping at her, needing to be ass-fucked more than anything I could ever remember, as her expert fingers also massaged my long, veiny cock, gently around the mushroom head and widened, enlarged piss-slit. My pre-come fluid was sticky all over my cock, and she rubbed it around, then lifted her sticky fingers to my mouth, coating my lips with the slimy, hot fluid. And I came and came, gushing on to the couch cushions, as she plunged a long knuckle deep up my ass, then pulled it out - hot!! in and out, in and out, and I shuddered helplessly under expert ass-tutelage, finally understanding what it was like to have a hole between my legs to have something slid in and out of till I came. I sagged down, my face flushed, turned to the side, arms trapped on my breasts, gasping and gasping as I came slowly back to a different sexual reality than I had left, how many minutes before.

    She lay beside me, gently stroking my back, as I drowsed off to sleep. And she murmured in my ear, "Would you like to meet my hubby?" I nodded weakly, visions of a long cock sliding into my soft anus as I drifted away. I guess she'd brought me to recognizing that my intense pleasure in this voluptuous anal play meant that her husband and I were twin souls. Queer? How could I possibly object?

  6. Been there, done that and want it all the time. I was hesitant, but as you said, if I want to play with her, then why shouldn't she be allowed to try it as well

  7. A couple of months ago I was getting incredible blowjob . she was petting my ass checks.I almost didn't notice her moving my leg .then as she was limit and sucking my balls I felt her tounge going across my but . I never let anyone get close to my hole .it felt nice . she didn't miss any spot back there.when she started on my hole I realize I was wigglein my ass. Before I knew it I realized her tounge was fucking my ass.didn't even realize when she was using her fingers. Never had anyone even try anything like that . when I reached orgasm I wouldn't move and was amazed at my state .then she told me I cam 3 full times on her pillow ,covered the hole thing.I try and get her to repeat it but don't . soon after that I knew fucking with her is real and I never been with any woman even close to her.when we fuck my everything is pleasered and complete .

  8. I have enjoyed anal self-play and find it ranges from stimulating to orgasmic. However, when my wife tries to peg me, I feel a combination of pain with an inkling of the pleasure possible. I recently bought several toys with a 1.5 inch diameter, the smallest I could find.

    Does anyone have any suggestions or ideas about how to increase the pleasure and decrease the pain?

  9. I talked about anal with my ex for s while before we agreed to buy a strap on together. We picked out the harness and cock we liked ( I wanted something modest in size )
    The first time she took me I couldn't believe how amazing it felt.. I had the most incredible orgasm..
    I miss her Fucking me.. and I miss rimming her ass.. I enjoy it almost as much as I enjoy licking her pussy...
    Some guys just don't know what they're missing... :fuck: :fuck: :fuck:

  10. I like being tickled, licked and penetrated by a finger. But my anus and rectum are too tight for anything more without pain. Any suggestions?

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