Everything You Need to Know
So my guess is that if you want to know how to use a dildo on a woman it is for one of three fairly obvious reasons:
- You want to use it on yourself.
- You want to use it on a female partner.
- You want to know how to fuck someone with a strap-on dildo.
The first two I will cover in this blog post but for the third click here to learn how to use a strap-on…
How to use a one for masturbation:
Pick the right time – There is nothing wrong with masturbating or playing with dildos BUT if you were to get caught by someone it could be VERY embarrassing. So pick a time and place where you know you will not get disturbed that way you can relax, enjoy and play in peace.
Use fantasy or sexy stories – The first few times you use your new dildo it might feel a bit weird, so use fantasies to get yourself feeling super horny before you start.
Put lube on the dildo and your pussy – (Your ass as well if you want to try it). Lube is great, it makes everything feel much more sexy and is essential if you want to experiment with anal play. My advice is to use lots of it and always more than you think you need.
Relax and explore – If you want to fuck yourself really hard with your toy GO FOR IT. It you want to grind your Clit against it GO FOR IT. If you want to try putting it in your ass GO FOR IT. It’s your body and you have the right to do whatever you want with it.
Let your body tell you what it needs – Try and focus on the sensations of pleasure and let your body tell you what it wants.
See if you can find your g-spot – Dildos are great for hitting that special spot inside your pussy, especially the ones with a bend in them.
Stimulate your clit with your fingers or a vibe – Try filling your pussy with the dildo and then working your clit with your fingers or a vibe. This will give you a very, very intense orgasm…You will love it!
Don’t stop until you cum (The do it again) – Keep going until you climax, catch your breath and then do it again. After all practice does make perfect! 😉
If you like being stretched buy a bigger one! – Sometimes the feeling of a huge toy inside you can be amazing! Don’t forget to put plenty of lube on first though.
How to one on a woman:
- Get her in the right mood – She will find it much, much easier to cum if she is relaxed and already feeling horny. So do whatever it takes to get her in the right frame of mind.
- Warm her up with foreplay and talking dirty – The more you turn her on the more fun you will both have with the toy.
- Cover her pussy and the toy in lube – Lube just makes sex better. It’s that simple, the more lube the better (especially for anal play where it is essential).
- Explore – Play around rub it on her clit, push it slowly inside her, see how she reacts.
- Use your fingers or tongue on her clit, or let her play while you fuck her – As you fuck her with the dildo make sure either you or she works her clit, that way when she cums it will be very, very intense.
- Watch and learn – This one tip is so important! If you don’t know what to do or you struggle to turn her on just give her the toy, sit back, watch and learn.
- Make her cum or let her finish herself off – If you can’t make her cum yourself tell her to make herself cum and learn what she does for the next time.
- Practice, it’s all about the practice – With all sexy skills the more you try it the better you will get and the better you get the more fun you will both have.
Love
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