Women are Better at Turning On Other Women...

Women are Better at Turning On Other Women...

True or False?

There is a myth that women who sleep together for the first time will automatically know exactly what to do to each other. That they will automatically be able to have mind blowing howling-orgasm-type sex with no practice necessary.

Speaking from a woman’s perspective, I have to say in my experience this is mostly untrue. My first few girl-on-girl encounters weren’t mind blowing at all. In fact they were a bit awkward and clumsy. Don’t get me wrong they were still really good fun but they were a million miles away from the mythical fantasy above.
I didn’t really know what I was doing, I was really nervous and a bit freaked out by the whole thing.

Now the myth of course isn’t totally untrue either. Women do instinctively know things about other woman’s bodies that a man can never know. They are very often more sensual and gentle in their lovemaking, which is of course often appreciated by other women.

Women are also quite commonly more attuned to another woman’s emotional needs. This can help her get in a much more relaxed and free state of mind in which to enjoy herself and her partner.

The main reason I wanted to write this short blog post was for the ladies out there who might want to try sleeping with another lady. If this is you, I don’t want you to put pressure on yourself thinking you have to live up to the myth and have mind-blowing sex the first time you get naked with another woman.

Don’t let this pressure put you off trying it, or stop you from enjoying whatever happens. My advice is very simple. Firstly pick your girl carefully. Second take your time, don’t rush straight into the wet sticky bits. Finally remember to enjoy whatever happens and let go of any unrealistic expectations or fantasies that you may have.

Guys – If you are lucky enough to be having a threesome with two ladies you need to take the lead. Look after them, show them the way and they will feel much better for having your help.

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2 thoughts on “Women are Better at Turning On Other Women...

  1. I agree with you Lola that women don't automatically know how to do it with other women. As most have guessed from my profile, I stick to my husband only. No women and no other men.

    I wonder, sometimes though, what it would be like to be with another woman? But it does really scare me. I have fantasies sometimes, about bathing with other women. I don't even like the looks of their bodies, like I do a man's but I wonder what it would be like to have a woman make me come instead of a man.

    My problem is I am limited in what I would want to do. For example, I don't want to kiss a woman. The thing is with a man (even a stranger), it is somewhat natural ... the body seems to know what to do. With women, I don't have a clue (well I have some clue because I know what I like with a man).

    I think I am a little selfish, too. I would like another woman to make sure I am satisfied like in my bath fantasies, but I don't want to do the same for them. Yet, I would make sure a man was taken care of if I was with him.

    Kind of strange thing, really ... I don't think I would say no, but I think the other girl would be unhappy because I would be too scared to do anything for her in return.

  2. Correct that women don't know how to move first time. My experience. Initially it is just a fun, not sensuality and sex. Once my cousin (female of course) spent night with me. She was experienced, so she really turned me on after fondling my boobs, licking nipples followed by licking pussy which by that time had become hot and wet, desiring more. Touching my clitoris and simultaneously fingering into cunt, brought me to another world. She touched my sensitive parts, kissed them and in this way I learned how to enjoy women's bodies.

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